Joe Gardino – father says, “I think parents get caught up in trying to make their kids great so they can live through their kids, and we try not to do that.”

In our last segment we met Adam, whose unique giftedness with guitar has propelled him to the top of international music competitions. Although all kids have gifts their parents should help them develop, some children are so gifted – in music, sports or academics – that they require additional support.

Nikki Myers – giftedness expert says, “Giftedness is an exceptionality just like ADHD, just like a learning disability, just like other categories where students need different approaches to solve their problems.”

Joe says, “Every once in a while there’s that moment when you have to help him get through it… and just be there to support him, and continually point him in the right direction so to speak.”

Parents can find working with an academically gifted child quite a challenge, because they tend to be more demanding.

Nikki says, “Not necessarily because they want to fight with somebody but because it’s intellectually stimulating to be able to dialogue and look at things from different points of view.”

There are several signs you can watch for to determine if your child may be gifted. Some of these show up quite early… such as speaking in sentences sooner than other kids… strong memorization ability… asking deep and thoughtful questions beyond their age level… and there are other signs, as well.

Nikki says, “Some gifted kids really need to move a lot… and you can tell the difference between that and ADHD because it’s focused.”

If you determine you have a gifted child who needs extra support, the next step is to share what you’ve learned with his school and teachers. And don’t neglect social needs… be sure your child has a mix of friends… and keep an eye on his attitude. Adam’s family does.

Adam Gardino – age 18 says, “Keeping me in check, if I say something cocky or stupid, they’re like hey you better watch it.”